Healing Our Emotional Blocks to Pleasure
I wanted to kick off 2022 by diving into the rich landscape of emotion. The emotional realm is often seen as murky, even dangerous. When we step into the emotional realm, we're stepping into the realm of the archetypal wild feminine.
Most, if not all of us have been heavily conditioned from a very early age that our emotional range is "too much" and as a survival skill we've learned how to to shut down or numb out certain emotions rather than feel them.
We've been taught to label emotions as "good" or "bad" and censor accordingly. But we can't selectively numb. When we limit our emotional range we limit our orgasmic range and capacity to receive pleasure and experience joy.
Reclaiming our emotional agency is not about feeling "good" all of the time, but rather building skills to get good at feeling.
When we do, it creates the deep self trust and confidence necessary to more fully receive pleasure and create deeper intimacy with ourselves and others.
I riff on:
The universal ways that the emotional body has been neglected
Emotions and motion; movement heals
Emotional blocks and the impact on our pleasure and desire
Emotional blocks and orgasm
Emotions and the nervous system; flight/fight/freeze
Why we want to become more parasympathetic-dominant pleasure zone
Emotional work and orgasmic cultivation
The Taoist Healing Sounds (see resources for more)
Emotions as energy and fuel
Early childhood and emotional conditioning
Being told we're "too much"
Emotional Gaslighting
Inner child work
Our emotional range and orgasmic range
The role of your Inner Pleasure Queen (see meditation in resources)
Pleasure as a hack to activating the Sacred Feminine Code
The power of acceptance and approval; The Taoist Inner Smile
Want to dive deeper?
Learn more about the Taoist Healing Sounds in this episode of The Vital Goddess Podcast
Download your Inner Pleasure Queen Meditation here
Download a list of vocabulary words for Describing the Felt Sense here
Book your FREE Pleasure Queen Activation Session here
Check out my online program Second Spring Queen here
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